Current Topics
Senator Bernie Sanders, Packing Them in on Campaign Trail
by Spag-hetti
0 seconds ago
Obama Announces Renewed Diplomatic Ties With Cuba
by Scoutgal
Today at 05:30 PM
The Duggars
by Spag-hetti
Today at 04:35 PM
Fox News On June 26th, 2015, Oh How Odd It All Seems
by Scoutgal
Today at 01:29 PM
Ex Senator Scott Brown Hawking Diet Supplements
by Scoutgal
Today at 01:24 PM
Govs. Chris Christie (NJ) and Paul LePage (ME), Birds of a Feather
by Scoutgal
Today at 01:23 PM
Presidential Run May Cost Donald Trump More Than Peanuts
by Scoutgal
Today at 01:19 PM
The American Dream
by Scoutgal
Today at 01:15 PM
Hiding Behind Faith
by Scoutgal
Today at 01:10 PM
Supreme Court strikes down bans on same-sex marriage
by Scoutgal
Today at 01:08 PM
Round Table For The Month Of July, 2015
by Spag-hetti
Today at 01:02 PM
Ex President George W. Bush's Top DOJ Officials Face Legal Charges
by Scoutgal
Today at 12:45 PM
Extremities
by Ken Condon
06/30/15 07:18 PM
Yes, You're a Racist -- And a Traitor
by Scoutgal
06/30/15 04:18 PM
Round Table For The Month Of June
by Scoutgal
06/30/15 01:15 PM
Forum Stats
6003 Members
55 Forums
14843 Topics
253055 Posts

Max Online: 282 @ 05/29/08 01:08 AM
Google Adsense
Page 1 of 2 1 2 >
Topic Options
#267922 - 01/24/14 01:10 PM The Great Mom & Dad Experiment
Ardy Offline
veteran

Registered: 12/22/05
Posts: 11990
Loc: San Jose, Ca USA
from the chronicle of higher education

Apparently there has been a lot of effort put into trying to help families stay together and do a better job raising their children. If this article is correct, that effort is mostly a well intentioned bust

not only that, the same may be true of the head start program.

Quote:
The Great Mom & Dad Experiment

Johnson, an associate professor of psychology at Binghamton University and director of its Marriage and Family Studies Laboratory, examines why marriages fall apart and what can be done to keep people together. This is the stuff he cares about. And he started out believing that these programs were worthwhile. "I thought this would work," he says. "I wanted to apply these interventions to these populations." It made sense to him, and he eagerly awaited the results.

Now, as he sees it, the numbers are in, and they're terrible. Attempts to spin the data as anything other than a train wreck strike him as "optimistic or quixotic." "My bias is science and data," Johnson says. "I look at these data and say, 'They're not working.'"

- See more at: http://m.chronicle.com/article/The-Great-Mom-Dad-Experiment/144027/#sthash.Pjsxt3IA.dpuf


I have to say that this article seems sensible to me, It does not seem like the result of an ideological screed.

If all this is true, I have to wonder if the conservative position on these issues needs a 2nd look. I personally am all for a government program that actually accomplishes something. But what is actually being accomplished?
_________________________
"It's not a lie if you believe it." -- George Costanza
The whole problem with the world is that fools and fanatics are always so certain of themselves. --Bertrand Russel

Top
#267924 - 01/24/14 02:07 PM Re: The Great Mom & Dad Experiment [Re: Ardy]
pondering_it_all Offline
old hand

Registered: 02/27/06
Posts: 4555
Loc: North San Diego County
I think the best idea was in the comments: Spend that $11,000/couple to get those folks G.E.D.s and a junior college AA or trade school program. They already know how to make a baby. Anything they don't know about taking care of one can be covered by some videos or a website. What they really need is a way to not be poor.

And some child care and birth control, while they are learning that, would also be useful.

Top
#267926 - 01/24/14 04:26 PM Re: The Great Mom & Dad Experiment [Re: pondering_it_all]
Scoutgal Offline
Administrator
Carpal Tunnel

Registered: 01/23/01
Posts: 26632
Loc: CA USA
One of the biggest reasons that marriages fall apart is money, and lack of communication. When my husband and I talked about getting married, we talked about what our priorities were in a marriage. Did we both want children? If so, how many? How would we discipline them? Education(either college prep or vocational) was a must. And we would discuss every big ticket purchase and make the decision together. How would we divide up household chores? Did I want to stay home with our children or work? All of these we talked about BEFORE getting engaged. We will be married 33 years next month.
_________________________
milk and Girl Scout cookies ;-)

Save your breath-You may need it to blow up your date.





Top
#267929 - 01/24/14 06:37 PM Re: The Great Mom & Dad Experiment [Re: Ardy]
pdx rick Offline
Member
Carpal Tunnel

Registered: 05/09/05
Posts: 37037
Loc: Portland, Oregon
Quote:
Just getting them in the door is a challenge, which is why recruiters are dispatched to hospitals and food-stamp offices, promising parents rewards for showing up. Couples who attend all classes receive cash, up to $200, along with points that can be redeemed for baby-related items like diapers, toys, books, strollers.

Uh...oh. This is a problem. If conservatives find out, they'll be screaming about liberals taking "free" stuff.

Any way to hide this from Fox News' prying eyes? Hmm
_________________________
Contrarian, extraordinaire



Top
#267930 - 01/24/14 06:49 PM Re: The Great Mom & Dad Experiment [Re: Scoutgal]
pdx rick Offline
Member
Carpal Tunnel

Registered: 05/09/05
Posts: 37037
Loc: Portland, Oregon
Originally Posted By: Scoutgal
One of the biggest reasons that marriages fall apart is money, and lack of communication. When my husband and I talked about getting married, we talked about what our priorities were in a marriage. Did we both want children? If so, how many? How would we discipline them? Education(either college prep or vocational) was a must. And we would discuss every big ticket purchase and make the decision together. How would we divide up household chores? Did I want to stay home with our children or work? All of these we talked about BEFORE getting engaged. We will be married 33 years next month.

Quote:
...couples don't get divorced because they're less adept at communication than couples with healthy 401(k)s and three-car garages. Poor people get divorced because they're poor, and being poor makes you stressed, and being stressed makes it harder for you to communicate, which makes it more likely that you'll split.
_________________________
Contrarian, extraordinaire



Top
#267946 - 01/25/14 05:09 PM Re: The Great Mom & Dad Experiment [Re: pdx rick]
Scoutgal Offline
Administrator
Carpal Tunnel

Registered: 01/23/01
Posts: 26632
Loc: CA USA
Originally Posted By: california rick
Originally Posted By: Scoutgal
One of the biggest reasons that marriages fall apart is money, and lack of communication. When my husband and I talked about getting married, we talked about what our priorities were in a marriage. Did we both want children? If so, how many? How would we discipline them? Education(either college prep or vocational) was a must. And we would discuss every big ticket purchase and make the decision together. How would we divide up household chores? Did I want to stay home with our children or work? All of these we talked about BEFORE getting engaged. We will be married 33 years next month.

Quote:
...couples don't get divorced because they're less adept at communication than couples with healthy 401(k)s and three-car garages. Poor people get divorced because they're poor, and being poor makes you stressed, and being stressed makes it harder for you to communicate, which makes it more likely that you'll split.


There are lots of poor couples who stay together. I know several. A failure to communicate means that the couple are different pages, and then how money is spent can become a big issue. Both partners need to communicate as to how they will make a budget and spend money. Mr. Scoutgal and I did not make a great deal of money when we were first married. We talked(communicated) about how we would spend our money, save money, and planned for retirement.
_________________________
milk and Girl Scout cookies ;-)

Save your breath-You may need it to blow up your date.





Top
#267948 - 01/25/14 05:19 PM Re: The Great Mom & Dad Experiment [Re: Ardy]
pdx rick Offline
Member
Carpal Tunnel

Registered: 05/09/05
Posts: 37037
Loc: Portland, Oregon

The scientific evidence shows that it stress which causes a breakdown in communication.
_________________________
Contrarian, extraordinaire



Top
#267949 - 01/25/14 05:46 PM Re: The Great Mom & Dad Experiment [Re: pdx rick]
logtroll Offline
old hand

Registered: 04/25/10
Posts: 6846
Loc: New Mexico (not old Mexico)
Originally Posted By: california rick

The scientific evidence shows that it stress which causes a breakdown in communication.
Can we conclude, therefore, that communication causes a breakdown in stress?
_________________________
"You can't fix a problem until you know what the problem is." Logtroll

Top
#267962 - 01/26/14 07:52 AM Re: The Great Mom & Dad Experiment [Re: logtroll]
pondering_it_all Offline
old hand

Registered: 02/27/06
Posts: 4555
Loc: North San Diego County
Quote:
Can we conclude, therefore, that communication causes a breakdown in stress?


Only if you can communicate while moving backwards in time.

For us mere humans, communication sometimes increases stress to the point of heart failure or gunshot fatality. I once communicated so intensely with a neighbor's visitor, (who was honking her horn right outside our bedroom window at 2 AM), that I suffered distorted vision for a couple of months from retinal blisters!

Top
#267963 - 01/26/14 09:05 AM Re: The Great Mom & Dad Experiment [Re: pondering_it_all]
logtroll Offline
old hand

Registered: 04/25/10
Posts: 6846
Loc: New Mexico (not old Mexico)
Originally Posted By: pondering_it_all
... I suffered distorted vision for a couple of months from retinal blisters!

Sounds like you may be a candidate for a stink-eye modulation implant - ask your doctor.
_________________________
"You can't fix a problem until you know what the problem is." Logtroll

Top
Page 1 of 2 1 2 >

Who's Online
1 registered (Spag-hetti), 8 Guests and 2 Spiders online.
Key: Admin, Global Mod, Mod
Newest Members
xiawei, Marzman, kyleyoung8, Retread, solafeian
6003 Registered Users
A2